The Ideabong renders more sage advice…

K.K. asks: How do I tell my husband that I want more kids?

Ideabong says: the mere fact that you are asking this question means that you suspect that your husband doesn’t want more kids. I am wondering why he doesn’t want more. How many do you have now? How many more is “more”. The act of procreation would be a truly joyless affair if your husband needs to be convinced to participate. Perhaps he would enjoy sex for pleasure more than he would like working to make you pregnant. I see the biggest danger of this situation being about a month long stand off whereby you guys are miserable and fight all the time, and share no intimacy, before he gives in and gives the more kids idea a thumbs up because there is no other way to make you happy (and get you into bed).Therefore, I recommend surprising him, thereby avoiding the unpleasant process of bringing him to heel, besides, he’s going to cave anyway.

Girl-lover asks: I‘m a lesbian and am into girly girls. I myself am also pretty femme and was thinking the other day if I were to get married one day would we both wear traditional dresses or would one of us play the male role and wear a tux?

Ideabong says: having a same sex marriage these days is hardly a situation in which you need to cater to other people’s ideas of what a traditional wedding should be like.  You are likely to scandalize those closed minded traditionalist people regardless of what you wear, so you may as well go all out and wear exactly what you want to, stopping short of a nazi uniform, or diapers or whatever else might compromise the dignity of the event. Since there is no tradition to adhere to it, I do believe you and your partner should focus on fun, and celebrating each other. Why don’t you choose each other’s attire?